RIP
Just to be sure I'm clear, this is what I think:
- some people may not care about such "exact" timing, by either not even realizing they exist, or realizing it but having learn (or feel like it's good to) ignore them
- some people may care greatly about such "exact" timing, either wanting it to be perfectly on time (like @navindra seems to do) or wanting it "off" as @dore_m does (and to a less degree many others including myself)
I don't think there's a good or right here, just an observation.
FWIW my daughter plays in various orchestras and the other day she played in a pretty big one in which I estimated (from the public) her distance from the timpani being about 10m. At 300m/s that's about 30ms. She did say that the timpani was playing a bit late, whereas I (from the audience) thought they were perfectly on time 😃
